When I started blogging, I was going through a hazy phase of my life. I was disconnected from almost everyone I knew and I was isolated. It did work as a therapy for me. But this was two years ago. A lot has changed since then. You can get a hint of those two years if you go through my Old Blog. The sad part since then is that everything and everyone I knew has changed. Changed is like an understatement but life has moved on and given everyone a fresh new start. I thought I was left out but I wasn’t. This is where we fail to realize that not only other things change but we change with time too. I changed too and I realized that when I started seeing the change in others. I started blaming them, making false assumptions, got depressed and blamed myself a lot of times because honestly…Who the hell likes change? Unless, it’s a pretty dress or a new dish or a new game. Well, let’s not get into that. When it comes to the critical elements in life — the change in those seems very challenging at first but eventually everyone learns to roll on with it with time. I don’t know if I have moved on yet from whatever happened in the past but I surely know that knowing the change in others, I’m slowly getting the motivation to forget and move on.
Friends, know this that nobody is a better doctor for you than you are. Not even time. Time can probably heal you but it will still remind you of the other happier times and memories that were fond of or even disliked. But when it comes to you, only you know what you want and whether you want to forget it or brood over it. Before I go all you-ing and finger pointing again, I wanna tell you about myself. I have started to accept those changes. It wasn’t easy but I have. Sometimes, it gets a little challenging knowing that you’ll be reminded of the past but I’ve learnt to not let that affect me anymore. The sooner everyone does that, the better for them. The phrase ”Ignorance is bliss” is indeed a true statement. If not in the short run, one will realize it in the long run.
Let’s not regret anything that has been lost or has happened in the past and look to a better change. How can we make the world a better place? By putting a GIANT smile! So, let’s SMILE! Allow everyone else to smile. It’s contagious 😉